It’s funny how one decision can change everything in your world. It’s not enough to put the idea out in the Universe like the “Secret” or “The Power of Positive Thinking.” It has to be followed through with an action to make it happen.
I used to conduct a seminar called, “Love is an accident waiting to happen.’’ When you are involved in a car accident, one decision in your brain either caused it or avoided it. Right? You are responsible for everything in your life.
When you decide you want to meet someone because let’s face it, this has been a lonely time in all of our lives. Now the vaccines are out and we are more willing to go out in the world again. You want to find that someone to quarantine with for the rest of your life. Ok. You know you’re lonely so you go to the self help section of Amazon, the bookstore, whatever and you read about it.
Reading or thinking about it, doesn’t produce a result. You have to up your game. Whether it’s joining an online dating site, going to a dating service or hiring a private matchmaker to recruit for you. If you don’t put yourself out there, they will not knock on your door.
Don’t worry about your flaws. We all have them. Don’t look for perfection, it doesn’t exist. What does exist is this. If you were looking for a job, would you read about it, think about it but not send a resume? You have to take action. It’s the same idea when you want to find love. If you do nothing, nothing will happen and you’ll be forever frustrated.
It’s time to come out of the house. It’s time to find love. It’s time to take action.